Win Your WifE’s Heart Back & Rebuild Your Marriage Even If She Already Filed For Divorce
According to website DivorceNet.com quoting American Sociological Association (ASA), wives spend on average about two years thinking about divorce before ever taking action.*
But to most husbands, “divorce” comes as a big surprise. Well…
Has your wife ever told you she feels:
Dismissed?
Unappreciated?
Misunderstood?
If yes, those are the “WARNING WORDS” she says before she mentions divorce for the first time.
Suppose she has ever mentioned any of those, or she has told you she is considering or filed for divorce. In that case, you need to listen up:
Every year, over 600,000 families are torn apart in the United States due to divorce. Out of those divorces, approximately 70% are initiated by women).**
Why is this?
We believe times have changed and so have women’s needs in a relationship. The old blueprint for a happy marriage no longer works. Simply giving your wife a roof over her head with 2 vacations per year isn’t enough. Most men have also inherited their Father’s same negative communication patterns, emotional expression, and the idea of masculinity.
When you combine all of this with the complacency many husbands fall into over the years, it’s no wonder so many women become confused, frustrated, and increasingly unsatisfied. Wives end up leaving their husbands because the man they once fell in love with failed to understand what really makes her happy.
Where does this leave you?
In a situation you wish you could have avoided a long time ago. Looking at the woman who used to love and admire you. But now, her eyes are filled with disdain and resentment.
So what do you do?
Most men turn to logical solution strategies to fix an emotional problem.
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- Doing chores
- Taking her on dates
- Coming home early from work
- Trying to talk about the problems
- Seeing a counselor
Many of these “marriage fix” solutions are often counterproductive… because
Most wives consider these MANIPULATION.
Because in her mind… here’s what she’s thinking:
“Why are you only changing right now that I told you I will divorce you? You’re just trying to manipulate me into staying with you.”
“You are being nice and doing these changes temporarily because I said I will file for divorce. But I know that things will go back to where they were the moment divorce is off the table.”
And in fact… she is right. Taking action only when your wife threatens divorce IS manipulation.
“Why are you only changing right now that I told you I will divorce you? You’re just trying to manipulate me into staying with you.”
“You are being nice and doing these changes temporarily because I said I will file for divorce. But I know that things will go back to where they were the moment divorce is off the table.”
And in fact… she is right. Taking action only when your wife threatens divorce IS manipulation.
The average cost of divorce in the United States dollars per person [1]
Children of divorced parents are 1.7x as likely to have a mental illness [2]
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Children of divorced parents perform 40% worse in school than children with married parents [3]
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Chance 2nd marriages end in divorce [4]
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Chance 3rd marriages end in divorce [5]
But, there is a better way. A step-by-step blueprint that consistently turns around marriages on the brink of divorce.
After years of working with clients, we have developed “Emotional Reset Method” (ERM), which helps husbands turn around their marriage using psychology techniques.
By using our ERM Method, many wives do not feel manipulated into staying together. Many wives see that the changes their husbands are now finally making are long-lasting, instead of a short-term manipulation.Â
This process works for every type of marriage situation.
It doesn’t matter if:
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- She already filed for divorce
- You or she moved out
- She said, “I love you, but I am no longer in love with you”
- She is seeing another man.
Don’t believe me?
Good!
WHAT RESULTS COACHING CLIENTS ARE SAYING
Ben, Business Owner
“She went from not-being-a-mother, having an affair, and being “done” with me, to stopping the affair, and trying to get back into the family unit.”
Damon, Engineer
“It took 5 weeks for my wife to go from “I want a divorce” to 5 nights in a row of intimacy. I have my family back together and peace in my home again.”
AJ, Sports Coach
“We’ve gone from sitting in the courthouse in front of the judge to the best we’ve ever been. Trust the process, grow through the program, and believe in yourself and your love for your wife and family.”
Rian, Sales Specialist
“As of last week, she has decided to not move out. I asked her what changed her mind, and she admitted she could see the difference in how I carry myself, emotionally composed, and that my confidence in our family never stopped. I can’t explain the level of relief along with the level of
determination I have to continue this new version of myself.”
After working with hundreds of husbands in failing marriages using the Emotional Reset Method, we have developed a coaching program walking you step by step what to do to save your marriage using the ERM Modality.
Depending on what’s best for you, we offer 1-1 individualized coaching as well as a group coaching program.
Set up a call down below with our marriage evaluator. On the free call, we will identify what led the marriage to where it is now and we will tell you exactly what you need to do to save it, even if she already filed for divorce.
If we can help you and you are a good fit for our coaching, we will tell you what that would look like!
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS:
What If My Wife Said, "It's Over" or Handed Me The Divorce Papers?
We have saved hundreds of marriages with those exact situations. No marriage is too far gone. Most often, women take those steps as an attempt to see how devoted you are to her. We will show you how when you schedule a call with us.Â
Who Will I Be Speaking With?
You will be speaking with our Marriage Evaluator. They are trained to identify the core issues that lead to your current marriage situation. From there, they will guide you on what to do next.
What Do I Need For The Call?
The call will take place over Zoom video conference. It will be approximately 1 hour long. It is expected that you are in a quiet place, ready to take notes for the call.
Is This Call Free?
The call is 100% free for individuals. On the free call, we will identify what led the marriage to where it is now, and we will tell you exactly what you need to do to save it, even if she has already filed for divorce. If we can help you and you are a good fit for our coaching, we will tell you what that would look like!
Sources:
* DivorceNet.com https://www.divorcenet.com/states/nationwide/the_walkaway_wife_syndrome
**”Women More Likely Than Men to Initiate Divorces, But Not Non-Marital Breakups” published by the American Sociological Association (ASA)
[1] How Much Does A Divorce Cost In 2024?
[2] Long-term effects of parental divorce on mental health – A meta-analysis
[3] Academic Performance in Children of Divorce: Psychological Resilience and Vulnerability
[4] First marriage dissolution, divorce, and remarriage : United States